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		<title>A Man Is Not A Plan</title>
		<description><![CDATA[A Man Is Not a Plan… or is it? By Jackie Ramler, Financial Specialist. I had a recently divorced client move their account to me because the prior broker said to them, “Don’t worry about the money, you’ll get married again and your new man can take care of you”.  The suggestion was that ‘A [...]]]></description>
		<link>https://divorcehappens.ca/blog/2013/09/a-man-is-not-a-plan/</link>
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		<title>Standard of Living</title>
		<description><![CDATA[While separation and divorce are emotionally painful, the real challenge often sets in when you experience the financial reality check- realizing that what you could afford as one family is no longer an option now that the family income has to support two separate households. Simple math tells us that 1 total income divided by [...]]]></description>
		<link>https://divorcehappens.ca/blog/2013/08/standard-of-living/</link>
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		<title>Are you emotionally ready to negotiate ?</title>
		<description><![CDATA[There are so many emotions involved with divorce and negotiation. Fear, sorrow, guilt, anguish, hurt, anger and so much more. In collaborative divorce you will need to sit at the table with your spouse and your collaborative team to negotiate. If you are too emotional then it is highly likely that the emotions will interfere [...]]]></description>
		<link>https://divorcehappens.ca/blog/2013/07/are-you-emotionally-ready-to-negotiate-2/</link>
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		<title>Income Review for Business Owners and Self Employed</title>
		<description><![CDATA[As a self-employed business owner we all know that there is grey area around putting personal expenses through the business.  In addition, business owners are often encouraged to add their spouse as an employee to gain tax advantage on lower taxed income to the family.  While these approaches are common practice, it is fair to [...]]]></description>
		<link>https://divorcehappens.ca/blog/2013/06/income-review-for-business-owners-and-self-employed/</link>
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		<title>Co-Parenting once you are sepatated</title>
		<description><![CDATA[Written by Sue Cook Perhaps you are separating or already split up and you have children. You and your child’s other parent both want to be actively involved in raising your kids.  Each of you wants to continue to see your children regularly, help them with the day to day aspects of life, keep your [...]]]></description>
		<link>https://divorcehappens.ca/blog/2013/05/co-parenting-once-you-are-sepatated/</link>
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		<title>Shared Custody, Child Support and Collaborative Practice</title>
		<description><![CDATA[The amount of time each parent spends with the children has always been a heated debate. Changes to the law a few years ago have made it even more heated. Normally, child support is set according to the child support guidelines. This is a chart that determines the amount of support to be paid according [...]]]></description>
		<link>https://divorcehappens.ca/blog/2013/04/shared-custody-child-support-and-collaborative-practice/</link>
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		<title>It’s all about the Money!</title>
		<description><![CDATA[On the website, www.divorcechoices.com there was a simple questionnaire on the home page that asked- What is the most important aspect of your divorce? A. The children B. The emotional transition C. The money D. The legal issues While I would have thought the children would score highest, surprisingly 98% of the +2200 respondents reported [...]]]></description>
		<link>https://divorcehappens.ca/blog/2013/03/it%e2%80%99s-all-about-the-money/</link>
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		<title>Trust and Divorce</title>
		<description><![CDATA[Trust is often damaged when people are getting divorced. It may be damaged by obvious things like an affair or a lie. But trust may also be broken when people change and just don’t understand each other. The unspoken bonds that once drew people together are damaged. I know how disorienting it is when I [...]]]></description>
		<link>https://divorcehappens.ca/blog/2013/03/trust-and-divorce/</link>
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		<title>&#8221; I earned all of the money, and built the wealth for this family, so it should be mine&#8230;.&#8221;</title>
		<description><![CDATA[This is a common lament I often hear when working with the high income earners in a traditional relationship (primary wage earner and a homemaker that does not work or earns much less), irrespective if they initiate the separation or not. They believe this so strongly that this often clouds their judgement and does not [...]]]></description>
		<link>https://divorcehappens.ca/blog/2013/02/i-earned-all-of-the-money-and-built-the-wealth-for-this-family-so-it-should-be-mine-2/</link>
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		<title>Amygdala Hijack or &#8220;I&#8217;m Too Angry to Think&#8221;</title>
		<description><![CDATA[Have you ever had a client become so angry they couldn’t think straight? Or so frightened they just ran away? Or maybe they were frozen with fear? You may be saying “Seen it? I’ve live it!” Me too. We’ve all been there. I remember being so angry the hair on my body stood on end [...]]]></description>
		<link>https://divorcehappens.ca/blog/2013/01/amygdala-hijack-or-im-too-angry-to-think/</link>
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